DEAR CHURCH: PASTORAL CARE OR CONGREGATIONAL CARE?
Fear. It’s the emotion all of us now understand in a way that we could never have predicted. From the strongest to the weakest, our world electively sheltered itself for self-preservation because of the pandemic. It’s bizarre and almost unbelievable. It is precisely why churches must immediately begin preparations to care for their people.
First, let me begin by calling attention to the term, “Pastoral Care”. We probably should call it “Congregational Care,” because this honor is not solely the responsibility of the pastor or church staff. This work will require help from all of us, and this is why:
Anyone who was unhealthy pre-pandemic WILL NOT un-shelter themselves when the quarantines are lifted. While the fear we have experienced might be easily dismissed for some of us, many people will struggle far into the future. Those who struggle with average social behavior will not return to society for quite some time. Those who experienced extreme trauma during the pandemic, especially those who lost loved ones and those who may have contracted the virus, may not un-shelter anytime soon. Plenty of folks will be unable to care for themselves as they did before the pandemic arrived. They will need assistance for the foreseeable future.
In the last 25 years, Pastoral Care in our churches has changed dramatically. In many churches, we have not cared for each other in the manner that we should. Plenty of people have fallen through the cracks and subsequently left our churches without complaint or explanation. For many of them, we didn’t understand or meet their basic need of community, and they departed in disappointment and sadness.
The opportunity to correct this has arrived. We shouldn’t want to go back to the same Pastoral Care systems that we used before the pandemic. Life After the Virus (“AV”) presents the need for much stronger Congregational Care. It is an “All hands on deck” effort.
How do we prepare? First, let’s begin discussions about how to connect to “our” people. In doing so, let’s include those who are on the “edges” of our congregations, recognizing that our “Church Community” includes many more people than we may realize (see “Dear Church: Community”, April 19, 2020).
Next, let’s be creative in our thinking and courageous in our approaches. We must understand that some of our folks will struggle greatly to reincorporate themselves into society and culture. Our diverse congregations will yield a diversity of individual coping mechanisms. Some of us have adopted healthy means to handle the pandemic; others of us have developed unhealthy habits that will be difficult to overcome in life “AV”. (The current statistics being discussed in regards to increased addictive tendencies and abuse during the pandemic aren’t incorrect. Church people aren’t immune, either.) We will need a compassionate understanding towards everyone in the “Church Community”: much healing will be needed!
What will be the result of our increased efforts in Congregational Care? Deeper relationships with each other through Jesus Christ! We face a tall-task that also serves as a beautiful opportunity for the Church to demonstrate the love of Jesus Christ for all people, but the Holy Spirit gives us Power! The best is yet to come! Let’s start talking about the many ways we can communicate God’s love for our people and our communities!
“Every day, they met together in the temple and ate in their homes. They shared food with gladness and simplicity. They praised God and demonstrated God’s goodness to everyone. The Lord added daily to the community those who were being saved.” (Acts 2:46-47, CEB).
One of our greatest challenges will be the establishment of a physical connection to people who are unable or unwilling to leave their homes, nursing facilities, hospitals, and other places. Visitation will be more important now than ever, but obviously, it’s going to change in churchlife “AV”. We must explore it further...